Your spouse may not understand what you’re going through.
But also, you may not understand what they are going through seeing you with pain.
While it’s tempting to get frustrated, feel not cared for and unloved because they don’t understand...that will only leave you BOTH feeling frustrated, not cared for and unloved.
However, compassion and love will ALWAYS lessen the frustration, and slowly but surely, start increasing the amount of care and love you both will feel.
Love always wins.
You will need a lot of it to understand and be compassionate to yourself, your pain, to your spouse, and to their pain.
And love makes it all possible...
